2nd Samuel 11:3 And David sent and enquired after the woman. And one said isn’t this Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the Hittite? 4 And David sent messengers, and took her; and she came in unto him, and he lay with her; for she was purified from her uncleanness: and she returned unto her house.
Thus, when we read of David sending to inquire of the woman, he already committed sin, by yielding to lust. Similarly, if a Christian man in our day is going about his daily duties, minding his own business and out of the blue a Bathsheba appears, and lust wells up in his heart, if he proceeds to enquire after her, he would have sinned already, in his heart.
Again, if a man is surfing the internet for legitimate reasons, like buying tools on Amazon, and out of the blue a Bathsheba appears in the side bar, if he clicks on to further inquire after her, adultery has already taken place, because deliberate choice was used to pursue the inner craving of lust. Sounds like we’re in big trouble.
Men cannot prevent any Bathsheba from appearing out of the blue, and there are times when the one who is struggling to overcome lust might be stung with stunning external beauty, but he must not even linger, or drool after her, because doing so would be the equivalent of David “Sending” to enquire after her”.
Matthew 5: 27 You have heard that it was said by them of old time, thou shalt not commit adultery, 28 But I say unto you, that whosoever looks on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
May The Lord add His blessing to the study of His word. God bless!