John 11:19 And many of the Jews came to Martha and Mary, to comfort them concerning their brother. 20 Then Martha, as soon as she heard that Jesus was coming, went and met him: but Mary sat still in the house.
There are various methods of dealing with it that can be helpful. However, this isn’t a one size fits all, because different persons handle grief differently. With some persons the deep sense of loss comes all at once, and you can be overwhelmed with emotion and sadness. With others, it takes some time for the loss to set in, and it may take weeks or even months before the full realization of absence is keenly felt.
One of the ways to deal with loss is to interact and fellowship with persons, and support groups which share the same perspectives of the blessed hope. When this is done, the grieving individuals would be encouraged, and comforted along Scriptural lines of thought meaning that the natural immortality of the soul would not find its way into the conversations to awaken a sense of immediate hope.
Other individuals might need time alone with God in order to be reconciled to the loss. Some persons do best when they take up some meaningful activity to preoccupy their minds, so that they would not dwell in a dark space for too long. Animals are also a great help to some persons who are grieving, because our furry friends have a way of connecting with some people in ways that prove to be helpful emotionally.
John 11:33 When Jesus therefore saw her weeping, and the Jews also weeping which came with her, he groaned in the spirit, and was troubled.
May The Lord add His blessing to the study of His word. God bless!