Matthew 7:5 Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye.
Husbands and wives are often asked to work late at night, or because of some unforeseen circumstance on the job, might be delayed for several hours, thus, just because he, or she does not come home at the usual time does not suggest that there is definitely something suspicious going on. The spouse in question might come home very late that night several hours after midnight, and because of some emergency, may not have been able to call, or say something.
His, or her cellphones could also have been dead; that doesn’t mean he was doing a night shift somewhere he was not supposed to be. Furthermore, in situations such as these one spouse may be driven to smell the other’s clothes searching for foreign perfume, or one might be driven, by gut feeling to scroll through the list of recent cell-phone calls, trying to identify some ghost of a person from never land.
Now, this is not to say that persons are to entirely dispense with gut feelings, because there are also instances where gut feelings, and premonition did turn out to be right. All we are saying is to get the undisputed facts before drawing your conclusions, because God does not judge anyone on gut feeling, but on facts and motives.
Revelation 20:12 And I saw the dead, small and great, stand before God; and the books were opened: and another book was opened, which is the book of life: and the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the books, according to their works.
May The Lord add His blessing to the study of His word. God bless!